I'm pleased to announce the first really mean comment on this blog.
Poor, poor kids. I don't see how your husband approved of this — and, by the look of it, he makes no appearance whatsoever in this discussion or others.
You may have to eventually admit to your kids that you did this because you could not afford the expensive prep school you dreamed of for them when you first became a mother — this is your way of pushing that out and coming up with a "new" and "better" way, which only time will tell what will happen.
This sort of comment is old news on my big blog. For example, here are 700 comments about how I'm ruining the moral fabric of society.
I feel comforted to have someone slamming me for my homeschooling decisions, (and I'm pretty sure there's a swipe at my decision to live on a farm too). I feel comforted because now I think the conversation can get real. Now nothing is sacred and we don't have to tiptoe around the idea that we might be ruining our kids' lives.
I have found that most of the people who hate me are insane, but sometimes, there are good reasons to tell me I'm a jerk. (Here's one.) I learn the most when people are free to call me out for being a terrible person.
And I think the homeschooling community in general will benefit when everyone is free to take pot shots at each other. It's a better learning environment because it is more honest.